Last Week’s Links

I’m trying out something different this week. I have three blogs:

Because of these wide-ranging interests, I often end up with lots of open browser tabs containing quite a variety of materials.

Since sorting all these materials out for the individual blogs can be quite time-consuming, I’m going to try to streamline my blogging process by putting together a weekly list of all the interesting articles I come across and publishing the same post to all three of the blogs. Feel free to click on whichever links interest you and to ignore the rest.

Note: In compiling this initial list, I discovered that I’ve actually been holding many of these tabs open for two weeks. Therefore, this entry is longer than future ones will probably be.

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Taking On the Ph.D. Later in Life

While the overall age of Ph.D. candidates has dropped in the last decade, about 14 percent of all doctoral recipients are over age 40, according to the National Science Foundation. Relatively few students work on Ph.D.s [in their 60s], but educators are seeing increasing enrollment in doctoral programs by students in their 40s and 50s. Many candidates hope doctorates will help them advance careers in business, government and nonprofit organizations; some … are headed for academic research or teaching positions.

This article caught my eye because I started working on a doctorate at age 57 and finally received my degree on my 63rd birthday. About 30 years earlier I had completed the course work but not the dissertation for a doctorate in English and American literature. My main motivation for returning to school was to fulfill a life-long dream of earning a Ph.D., but I also benefitted from being able to focus my studies on the particular area I was interested in (life stories).

You Can Go Home Again: The Transformative Joy Of Rereading

Returning to a book you’ve read multiple times can feel like drinks with an old friend. There’s a welcome familiarity — but also sometimes a slight suspicion that time has changed you both, and thus the relationship. But books don’t change, people do. And that’s what makes the act of rereading so rich and transformative.

Juan Vidal explains why he rereads three books every year: A Moveable Feast by Ernest Hemingway, Holy the Firm by Annie Dillard, and Save Twilight: Selected Poems by Julio Cortázar.

Michael Kinsley’s ‘Old Age: A Beginner’s Guide’

Longevity breeds literature. As people (including writers) live longer thanks to medical advances, we can expect many more books contemplating the vicissitudes of aging, illness and dying. These topics, previously thought uncommercial, not to mention unsexy, have been eloquently explored recently by Diana Athill (“Somewhere Towards the End”), Roger Angell (“This Old Man”) and Christopher Hitchens (“Mortality”), among others. Now that the baby boom generation, defined as those born between 1946 and 1964, “enter life’s last chapter,” Michael Kinsley writes, “there is going to be a tsunami of books about health issues by every boomer journalist who has any, which ultimately will be all of them.” Hoping to scoop the others, he has written “Old Age,” a short, witty “beginner’s guide,” with an appropriate blend of sincerity and opportunism.

100 MUST-READ WORKS OF SOUTHERN LITERATURE

Literature of the American South comprises more than just Harper Lee’s To Kill a Mockingbird and the works of William Faulkner. Here Emily Gatlin provides a class list of the full range of works that illustrate the Southern literary experience.

‘Literature about medicine may be all that can save us’

A new generation of doctor writers is investigating the mysteries of the medical profession, exploring the vital intersection between science and art

In telling the stories of illness, we need to tell the stories of the lives within which illness is embedded. Neither humanism nor medicine can explain much without the other, and so many people ricochet between two ways of describing their very being. This is in part because medicine has become so much harder to understand, with its designer molecules, bewildering toxins and digital cameras inserted into parts of ourselves we have never seen, nor wanted to see.

Telling the stories of illness has given rise to a movement known as “narrative medicine,” or, more broadly, “medical humanities.” We are seeing more and more memoirs by patients about their experiences of illness and by doctors about their attempts to understand their patients’ stories. Many of the books by physicians include their authors’ own experiences of being ill.

Books by physicians concerned about understanding patients’ stories of illness discussed here include the following:

Complications: A Surgeon’s Notes on an Imperfect Science by Atul Gawande
Being Mortal by Atul Gawande
Do No Harm: Stories of Life, Death and Brain Surgery by Henry Marsh
What Doctors Feel by Danielle Ofri
The Emperor of All Maladies: A Biography of Cancer by Siddhartha Mukherjee
When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
Adventures in Human Being by Gavin Francis

The Best Music for Staying Productive at Work, Backed by Science

I always used to want complete quiet when reading or concentrating, but when I went back to school I discovered that certain types of music could help me focus. This article summarizes the research demonstrating how music can increase concentration and discusses which types of music work best for this purpose.

The best part of this article is the links to examples of music for focus in these categories: classical, electronic, video game soundtracks, ambient noise, and “everything else.”

Neuroscientists create ‘atlas’ showing how words are organised in the brain

Scientists have created an “atlas of the brain” that reveals how the meanings of words are arranged across different regions of the organ.

Described as a “tour de force” by one researcher who was not involved in the study, the atlas demonstrates how modern imaging can transform our knowledge of how the brain performs some of its most important tasks. With further advances, the technology could have a profound impact on medicine and other fields.

Thinking Beyond Money in Retirement

After a career of working, scrimping and saving, many retirees are well prepared financially to stop earning a living. But how do you find meaning, identity and purpose in the remaining years of your life?

WOMEN DETECTIVES IN FACT AND FICTION

This excerpt from Pistols and Petticoats: 175 Years of Lady Detectives in Fact and Fiction by Erika Janik discusses the female detectives, real and literary, who preceded Sue Grafton’s Kinsey Millhone and Sara Paretsky’s V.I. Warshawski.

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 17

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 17

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When writing by hand do you prefer to use a pencil or pen?

I prefer to use a fountain with purple ink. I have several fountain pens that I use with amethyst ink cartridges. For traveling, I carry a box of Pilot Varsity disposable fountain pens in purple.

What’s your choice: jigsaw, word, maze or numeric puzzles?

Definitely word puzzles. My favorite is an iPhone game called Bookworm by PopCap Games. I’ve had it for a long time, and it must now have been retired, because it’s not listed on the PopCap page. This is the same company that has produced Bejeweled and Plants vs. Zombies.

Do you prefer long hair or short hair for yourself?

I’ve worn my hair quite short for several years now. When I get out of the shower, I just tousle my hair and let it dry. I decided that life is too short to waste time fooling with my hair. I also was never very good at fooling with my hair, which made the time and effort seem not very worthwhile anyway.

List five some of your favorite blogs.

There are so many. Here are five:

The Daily Post

True Stories Well Told

Bloom

Modern Mrs. Darcy

Writing on the Pages of Life

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

Last week was busier than I like. This week has fewer activities, and I’m looking forward to being able to concentrate on getting more work done.

I hope you all have a good week!

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 16

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 16

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If you had to have your vision corrected would you rather: glasses or contacts? Or what do you use if you need to have your vision corrected?

As a young adult I had no vision problems. It wasn’t until I hit about 45 that I began to need glasses for reading. I did not take well to that change. Eventually I needed a slight correction in my distance vision as well as progressively more correction for reading.

Then last fall I went to the eye doctor for what I thought was another necessary correction for reading. I was flabbergasted when the doctor said, “We can’t correct your vision with glasses any more. You need cataract surgery.”

What???? I thought people got cataract surgery in their 80s, not in their 60s. But I decided to have the surgery, and I’m so glad that I did. After I had the first eye done, I would alternately close one eye and look through the other, and I couldn’t get over the difference. I can illustrate the difference with a couple of photographs I took on a recent cruise. The bedspread was white, and every day the room steward would make an animal out of white towels. Here are two photos, one taken without flash and one with:

After my first cataract surgery, the corrected eye saw like the photo with flash, while the other eye saw everything like the photo without flash. I was truly amazed by the difference and couldn’t wait to get my other eye corrected about a month after the first.

One nice thing about cataract surgery is that the new, implanted lens corrects your distance vision to 20/20. I still need some correction for reading, but the amount of correction is nowhere near as drastic as before the surgery. I can now use reading glasses from the drugstore.

But the biggest difference since the cataract surgery is in how much brighter the world is. I didn’t realize how much colors had dimmed until I had the first surgery done. Both surgeries went very well, and I’m more than glad that I had them done.

If you had to describe your day as a traffic sign, what would it be?

This isn’t a traffic sign, but it does describe something I try to tell myself about life every day:

No crabbing allowed!
No crabbing allowed!

Was school easy or difficult for you? How so?

Grammar school and most of high school were pretty easy for me. I had to study, but I was able to learn things easily. I didn’t come up against something that I couldn’t handle until calculus in my last year of high school, which I dropped early on.

I’m glad I’m not in high school right now. I’m fairly certain quantum physics would also do me in.

Would you rather take a 1 or 2 week vacation with an organized tour or take a cruise of your choice?

I think of a cruise as an organized tour, and cruises have become our first choice. In 2014 we took a group tour of Ireland that had us repacking our suitcases early just about every morning to move on to the next destination. It was a wonderful trip, and we got to see a lot of different places, but I like a cruise because once you’ve unpacked in your room, the hotel moves with you. You can’t see everything this way, but you can see a lot without having to repack.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

I know you’re all probably sick of hearing this, but last week was a great one, and I hope for more of the same this week (And we’ve just signed up for a European cruise in the fall.)

I hope everyone has a great week.

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

How Many of These Memoirs Have You Read?

Lately I haven’t been keeping up with the field of memoir as closely as I’d like. When I came across the article 100 MUST-READ MEMOIRS by Kim Ukura on BookRiot, her list provided me the opportunity catch up on what I’ve been missing.

This list is particularly good for my purposes now because Ukura “decided to focus this list around contemporary memoirs – those written within the last 100 years, with a pretty heavy skew towards those from the last 20 years.” She also has some advice for anyone wanting to brush up on memoir as a genre:

If you’re curious about the history and evolution of memoir as a genre, I can’t recommend Memoir: A History by Ben Yagoda enough.

After Ukura’s complete list, I’ll create some lists of my own:

  • those from her list that I’ve read
  • those that I started but did not finish
  • those on my TBR shelf
  • those I should add to my TBR list
  • other recent memoirs I recommend

Here is Ukura’s chronological list:

Out of Africa by Isak Dinesen (1937)

West With the Night by Beryl Markham (1942)

Dust Tracks on a Road by Zora Neale Hurston (1948)

Night by Elie Wiesel (1960)

Paper Lion: Confession of a Last-String Quarterback by George Plimpton (1966)

Coming of Age in Mississippi by Anne Moody (1968)

I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou (1969)

Conundrum by Jan Morris (1974)

The Woman Warrior: Memoirs of a Girlhood Among Ghosts by Maxine Hong Kingston (1976)

Wild Swan: Three Daughters of China by Jung Chang (1991)

Girl, Interrupted by Susanna Kaysen (1993)

Autobiography of a Face by Lucy Grealy (1994)

Dreaming by Carolyn See (1995)

The Liar’s Club by Mary Karr (1995)

The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother by James McBride (1995)

Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt (1996)

Lucky by Alice Sebold (1999)

A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers (2000)

Kitchen Confidential: Adventures in the Culinary Underbelly by Anthony Bourdain (2000)

On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King (2000)

Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris (2000)

Long Walk to Freedom by Nelson Mandela (2000)

First They Killed My Father: A Daughter of Cambodia Remembers by Loung Ung (2000)

Don’t Let’s Go to the Dogs Tonight: An African Childhood by Alexandra Fuller (2001)

She’s Not There: A Life in Two Genders by Jennifer Finney Boylan (2003)

Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books by Azar Nafisi (2003)

Dry by Augusten Burroughs (2003)

Lipstick Jihad: A Memoir of Growing up Iranian in America and American in Iran by Azadeh Moaveni (2005)

The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls (2005)

The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion (2005)

Garlic and Sapphires: The Secret Life of a Critic in Disguise by Ruth Reichl (2005)

Jesus Land by Julia Scheeres (2005)

Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert (2006)

I Feel Bad About My Neck: And Other Thoughts on Being a Woman by Nora Ephron (2006)

A Long Way Gone: Memoirs of a Boy Soldier by Ishmael Beah (2007)

Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life by Barbara Kingsolver (2007)

Falling Leaves: The Memoir of an Unwanted Chinese Daughter by Adeline Yen Mah (1997)

The Center Cannot Hold: My Journey Through Madness by Elyn R. Saks (2007)

The Diving Bell and the Butterfly by Jean-Dominique Bauby (2007)

The Sharper the Knife, the Less You Cry: Love, Laughter and Tears at the World’s Most Famous Cooking School by Kathleen Flinn (2007)

Dreams from My Father: A Story of Race and Inheritance by Barack Obama (2007)

Look Me in the Eye: My Life with Asperger’s by John Elder Robison (2007)

One Drop: My Father’s Hidden Life — A Story of Race and Family Secrets by Bliss Broyard (2007)

What I Talk About When I Talk About Running by Haruki Murakami (2008)

Voluntary Madness by Norah Vincent (2008)

In the Sanctuary of Outcasts by Neil White (2009)

Mennonite in a Little Black Dress: A Memoir of Going Home by Rhoda Janzen (2009)

I’m Down by Mishna Wolff (2009)

Just Kids by Patti Smith (2010)

The Bucolic Plague: How Two Manhattanites Became Gentlemen Farmers by Josh Kilmer-Purcell (2010)

Let’s Take the Long Way Home: A Memoir of Friendship by Gail Caldwell (2010)

Making Toast by Roger Rosenblatt (2010)

The Boy Who Harnessed the Wind: Creating Currents of Electricity and Hope by William Kamkwamba and Bryan Mealer (2010)

Lonely: Learning to Live with Solitude by Emily White (2010)

Hiroshima in the Morning by Rahna Reiko Rizzuto (2010)

Orange is the New Black: My Year in a Women’s Prison by Piper Kerman (2010)

Devotion by Dani Shapiro (2010)

Blood, Bones and Butter: The Inadvertent Education of a Reluctant Chef by Gabrielle Hamilton (2011)

The Long Goodbye by Meghan O’Rourke (2011)

This Life Is in Your Hands: One Dream, Sixty Acres, and a Family Undone by Melissa Coleman (2011)

Tolstoy and the Purple Chair: My Year of Magical Reading by Nina Sankovitch (2011)

What It Is Like to Go to War by Karl Marlantes (2011)

Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me? (And Other Concerns) by Mindy Kaling (2011)

Life Itself by Roger Ebert (2011)

Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? by Jeanette Winterson (2011)

House of Stone: A Memoir of Home, Family, and a Lost Middle East by Anthony Shadid (2012)

Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail by Cheryl Strayed (2012)

Full Body Burden: Growing Up in the Nuclear Shadow of Rocky Flats by Kristen Iversen (2012)

One Hundred Names for Love by Diane Ackerman (2012)

Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness by Susannah Cahalan (2012)

Let’s Pretend This Never Happened: A Mostly True Memoir by Jenny Lawson (2012)

Heads in Beds: A Reckless Memoir of Hotels, Hustles and So-Called Hospitality by Jacob Tomsky (2012)

Do You Dream in Color? Insights from a Girl Without Sight by Laurie Rubin (2012)

Does Jesus Really Love Me? A Gay Christian’s Pilgrimage in Search of God in America by Jeff Chu (2013)

The Men We Reaped by Jesmyn Ward (2013)

I Am Malala: The Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by the Taliban by Malala Yousafzai and Christina Lamb (2013)

An Astronaut’s Guide to Life on Earth by Col. Chris Hadfield (2013)

Coming Clean by Kimberly Rae Miller (2013)

Prairie Silence by Melanie Hoffert (2013)

Out With It: How Stuttering Helped Me Find My Voice by Katherine Preston (2013)

Just Mercy: A Story of Justice and Redemption by Bryan Stevenson (2014)

Delancy: A Man, a Woman, a Restaurant, a Marriage by Molly Wizenberg (2014)

Smoke Gets In Your Eyes: And Other Lessons from the Crematory by Caitlin Doughty (2014)

Without You There Is No Us: My Time with the Sons of North Korea’s Elite by Suki Kim (2014)

The Lonely War: One Woman’s Account of the Struggle for Modern Iran by Nazila Fathi (2014)

Daring: My Passages by Gail Sheehy (2014)

Fire Shut Up in My Bones by Charles Blow (2014)

Negroland by Margo Jefferson (2015)

It’s What I Do: A Photographer’s Life of Love and War by Lynsey Addario (2015)

Girl in a Band by Kim Gordon (2015)

Hunger Makes Me a Modern Girl by Carrie Brownstein (2015)

H is for Hawk by Helen MacDonald (2015)

Hold Still: A Memoir with Photographs by Sally Mann (2015)

My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinem (2015)

Blackout: Remembering the Things I Drank to Forget by Sarah Hepola (2015)

Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates (2015)

All Who Go Do Not Return by Shulem Deen (2015)

Poor Your Soul by Mira Ptacin (2016)

Love, Loss and What We Ate by Padma Lakshmi (2016)

When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi (2016)

There are 17 books on this list that I have read (links are to my reviews):

Dust Tracks on a Road by Zora Neale Hurston (1948)
The Woman Warrior: Memoirs of a Girlhood Among Ghosts by Maxine Hong Kingston (1976)
Autobiography of a Face by Lucy Grealy (1994)
The Liar’s Club by Mary Karr (1995)
The Color of Water: A Black Man’s Tribute to His White Mother by James McBride (1995)
Angela’s Ashes by Frank McCourt (1996)
Lucky by Alice Sebold (1999)
On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft by Stephen King (2000)
Reading Lolita in Tehran: A Memoir in Books by Azar Nafisi (2003)
The Glass Castle by Jeannette Walls (2005)
The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion (2005)
Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert (2006)
The Center Cannot Hold: My Journey Through Madness by Elyn R. Saks (2007)
Devotion by Dani Shapiro (2010)
Tolstoy and the Purple Chair: My Year of Magical Reading by Nina Sankovitch (2011)
Why Be Happy When You Could Be Normal? by Jeanette Winterson (2011)
Wild: From Lost to Found on the Pacific Crest Trail by Cheryl Strayed (2012)

And I found a couple that I started but did not finish:

West With the Night by Beryl Markham (1942)
Animal, Vegetable, Miracle: A Year of Food Life by Barbara Kingsolver (2007)

I have 7 titles from this list on my TBR shelf:

Girl, Interrupted by Susanna Kaysen (1993)
A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers (2000)
Dry by Augusten Burroughs (2003)
What I Talk About When I Talk About Running by Haruki Murakami (2008)
Brain on Fire: My Month of Madness by Susannah Cahalan (2012)
H is for Hawk by Helen MacDonald (2015)
When Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi (2016)

I also found 3 that I should add to my TBR list:

I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou (1969)
Me Talk Pretty One Day by David Sedaris (2000)
My Life on the Road by Gloria Steinem (2015)

Finally, here are some other memoirs that I recommend:

The Dance of the Dissident Daughter by Sue Monk Kidd
Not My Father’s Son by Alan Cumming
Born on a Blue Day by Daniel Tammet
Through the Door of Life: A Jewish Journey Between Genders by Joy Ladin
The Distance Between Us by Reyna Grande
When We Were the Kennedys by Monica Wood

What About You?

What memoirs do you especially recommend?

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 15

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 15

share-your-worldName one thing not many people know about you.

Most people probably don’t expect that I sometimes have dreams in which I’m caught not being able to do something I’m supposed to do. This is known as imposter syndrome. Its frequency has lessened since I moved 2,000 miles and had to make a whole new set of friends, but I still occasionally feel those twinges of fear, usually for no good reason.

If a distant uncle dies and you were always his favorite and leaves you $50,000 (any currency) in his will, what would you do?

I’m beginning to worry about perhaps needing long-term memory care (dementia runs in my family). So I think the first thing I would do is set up some kind of fund that would use the money for such care for my husband and myself, if need be. If we didn’t exhaust that amount before we died, I would leave the rest to the local food bank.

Where do you hide junk when people come over?

Why, in the junk room, of course. The junk room is also known as the guest room, but in between visits it tends to collect stuff. When someone is actually going to come use the guest room, we have to do a major cleaning. During that process most of the junk gets moved into the garage, where it awaits the annual junk collection drive.

Complete this sentence: I want to learn more about …

… just about everything I come across. My life has been a series of research projects. Whenever I come across something I know little or nothing about, I read up on it. It’s a good way to learn new things, but it sometimes distracts me from staying focused on what I need to do.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

We are starting to have the beautiful spring into summer weather for which we moved to the Pacific Northwest. I’m loving it right now, but this week I look forward to (NOT!) having to put away my turtlenecks and heavy-weight jeans and get out my summer clothes.

I hope you all have a great week!

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 14

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 14

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If you could hire someone to help you, would it be with cleaning, cooking, or yard work?

When we moved into a retirement community, we say a forever goodbye to yard work, which is taken care of by the institution.

With a choice between cleaning and cooking, I would definitely opt for help with the cleaning. In fact, what I’d want wouldn’t exactly be help, since help suggests that I would do part of the job and someone else would help me out by doing the rest. What I have in mind is that I would hire someone to do ALL the cleaning. I spent my adolescence as essentially a live-in maid, with responsibility for all the house cleaning. That’s a memory I’d just as soon be able to forget by now having someone clean for me.

What makes you laugh the most?

I’m a sucker for all those laughing baby videos on Facebook. Other things that make me laugh are a good pun and shrewd, insightful commentary, particularly about politics.

What was your favorite food when you were a child?

My mother was not the most creative cook in the world, so my childhood meals were pretty unremarkable. However, the one thing my mother excelled at was her New England baked beans, which I loved. I have never been able to duplicate her results, even when using her recipe.

Other favorite foods from my childhood were grilled cheese sandwiches with tomato soup made with milk, hotdogs, and my grandmother’s beef stew, biscuits, and chicken and dumplings.

List at least five favorite flowers or plants.

bouquet of lilacs and tulips
bouquet of lilacs and tulips
  1. lilacs
  2. crocus
  3. iris, especially purple ones
  4. rhododendrona, especially purple ones (the official flower of my new home state of Washington)
  5. roses
  6. lilies of the valley
  7. bleeding heart
  8. tulips

 

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

I greatly enjoyed last weekend’s men’s and women’s college basketball championships. This week I am enjoying the return of baseball and hope that my new home team, the Seattle Mariners, might actually contend this year. We also have minor league baseball right here in my hometown, the Tacoma Rainiers (the Mariners’ AAA club). We attended their opening night on Thursday and were rewarded with a win.

I hope everyone has a great week!

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 13

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 13

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Are you left or right handed?

Right-handed. I know some people who can do certain things with their non-dominant hand, but I am not one of them

If you had only one TV, would you prefer the TV in the living room or another room?

We do have only one TV, and it’s in the living room.

Have you ever participated in a distance walking, swimming, running, or biking event? Tell your story.

I myself have not. But, as any parent of an athlete will tell you, when your child competes you feel as if you’re being pulled along every inch of the way. My daughter was a competitive swimmer, and I can’t tell you how many laps I’ve participated in vicariously.

Complete this sentence: Love is… .

… all you need
… what makes the world go ‘round
… what the world needs now
… what there’s just too little of

I can’t help it: I’m a child of the ’60s.

Have a good week, everyone!

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

Books I Finished in March

Because I had jury duty for the entire month of March, I did not get as much reading done as I would have liked. I usually finish one book before starting another, but I decided to set aside the book I was reading, on which I wanted to take notes, for one that I could more easily pick up and put back down as necessary. As a result, I finished out March with two Big Books each half finished.

Here are the three—all rather short—that I did finish reading in March.

Where Are the Children? by Mary Higgins Clark

where-are-the-childrenLong before Mary Higgins Clark took over as the reigning queen of romantic suspense, she concentrated on the suspense part. From childhood she had loved suspense stories, first books featuring girl detectives like Judy Bolton and Nancy Drew, and later books by authors including Agatha Christie, Josephine Tey, Ngaio Marsh, and Daphne du Maurier. Clark’s first published book was a collection of stories. Her second book, published in 1975, was Where Are the Children?, her first novel.

Years ago Nancy Harmon had suffered through the disappearance and deaths of her two young children in California. Her husband also died of an apparent suicide. Nancy was charged with the murders of her children but was freed on a technicality. She dyed her hair, changed her name, and traveled to Cape Cod, where she remarried and had two children.

On the seventh anniversary of the disappearance of her first two children, the nightmare begins all over again when
Nancy discovers that her two preschoolers have disappeared from the back yard. As the search for the children begins, spearheaded by a retired detective turned writer, Nancy’s past gradually comes to light. She must endure the scrutiny of a small community naturally suspicious of outsiders along with the anguish over the fate of her children. Will the children be found, or will Nancy once again be haunted by, and accused of, a mother’s worst nightmare?

The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath
Recommended

bell-jarSylvia Plath’s autobiographical novel was first published in England in 1963 under the pseudonym Victoria Lucas. Plath died by suicide a month after that publication. The novel was first published under Plath’s own name in 1967. Through the influence of her husband, poet Ted Hughes, and her mother, the book was not published in the United States until 1971.

Set in 1953, “summer the Rosenbergs were executed,” the novel tells the story of Esther Greenwood as she begins a prestigious summer internship at a woman’s magazine in New York City. Greenwood, from the suburbs around Boston, has attended a nearby woman’s college on a scholarship awarded because of her outstanding writing ability. Unable to find any joy or meaning in the life she encounters in the city and in the gender identity society expects of her, Greenwood becomes increasingly depressed and unable to sleep. At the end of the internship she returns home, but her mental health declines rapidly and she receives treatment from a number of doctors and institutions.

This novel, which provides insight into the gender expectations and the mental health attitudes of the 1950’s, was the March selection of my in-person classics book club.

Of the Farm by John Updike
Recommended

of-the-farmPublished in 1965, this short novel provides an image of American life at that time. Joey Robinson, age 35 and a resident of New York City, brings his second wife, Peggy, and his 11-year-old stepson, Richard, to visit his mother on the rural Pennsylvania farm where Joey spent his adolescence. The farm belongs to Joey’s mother; his father, recently dead, was never happy here. His mother is aging and can no longer care for the farm on her own.

Over the three days of their visit, Joey is haunted by memories not only of his parents and life on the farm, but also of his first wife, Joan, whose large portrait has been moved from the living room to a small upstairs bedroom, and thoughts of his three children, who now live in Canada with their mother and stepfather.

With heavy-handed symbolism, the farm becomes the Garden of Eden: Peggy unexpectedly begins menstruating, to intensify the fertility/Garden of Eden motif, and Joey frequently thinks of her body as a field to plow. On Sunday they all attend the local church, where the minister preaches a sermon expounding on the biblical description of the Garden of Eden:

What do these assertions tell us abut men and women today? First, is not Woman’s problem that she was taken out of Man, and is therefore a subspecies, less than equal to Man, a part of the world? … Second, she was made after Man. Think of God as a workman who learns as he goes. Man is the rougher and stronger artifact; Woman the finer and more efficient. (p. 112)

Over the course of the visit, the child, Richard, becomes a mediator between the three adults as they debate the choices they have made and the ways in which they define their lives.

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Year-to-date total of books read: 10

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 12

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 12

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Wanting something to quench your thirst, what would you drink?

I have never liked water, even as a kid. So now when I need something to quench my thirst, I usually go for iced tea with lemon and sweetened with stevia. At home I make sun tea with decaf tea bags so that I can drink it at any time of day without worrying about it keeping me awake all night.

For commercial drinks, I usually go for Vitamin Water Zero (non-carbonated) or Sparkling Ice (carbonated). Both have no calories.

What made you feel good this past week?

We had a couple of days of at least partial sunshine, which always improves my mood. We also saw spring advance with the blooming of more flowers and shrubs. I still love the beauty of spring blooms, even if they do make my nose run and my eyes sting and water.

When you’re alone at home, do you wear shoes, socks, slippers, or go barefoot?

Almost always slippers, because I’m one of those people whose feet are always cold. Even though I often wear sandals outside in summer, I still put on my fleece-lined slippers when I’m hanging around the house.

Would you rather live where it is always hot or always cold?

If I had to choose one of these, I’d go for always cold because I can put on enough clothes to keep me warm. One of the reasons why we moved away from St. Louis, MO, is that it’s always hot and humid, at least in summer. I finally couldn’t stand it any more.

However, my real first choice is to live where the climate is moderate while still featuring different seasons. Life in Tacoma, WA, where we now live, is perfect for me. Summers aren’t too hot, and winters aren’t too cold. I love living here.

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

This time of year is a sports dream: men’s and women’s college basketball tournaments and the approach of baseball’s opening day. I’ll be watching a lot of TV by next weekend. Bring it on!

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 11

SHARE YOUR WORLD – 2016 WEEK 11

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How many siblings do you have? What’s your birth order?

My mother was married twice. I resulted from her first marriage. I have a brother 13 years younger than me and a sister 15 years younger.

My sister was 15 when my own daughter was born. This half-generation difference between my siblings and me means that I sometimes have to stop and think about how the ladder of relationships works. Perhaps because I was a second mother to my younger siblings, I sometimes think of my sister as a cousin to my daughter when in reality my sister is my daughter’s aunt.

In a car would you rather drive or be a passenger?

Many times I enjoy being a passenger so that I can look around and really see the scenery instead of having to concentrate on driving. I love to try to take photos as we drive along, although many of those photos and up being worthless.

However, I’m also very happy to drive on a solo long trip. One summer I drove round trip between St. Louis, MO, and CT for my sister’s wedding. About three days after I returned to St. Louis, I drove my daughter’s car from St. Louis to Tacoma, WA, where my daughter was attending college. So within about three weeks I drove more than the distance between the east and west coasts. What I like so much about these long drives alone is audiobooks. I line up a whole bunch on my iPod and take off. One books melts into another as the miles melt away.

When you lose electricity in a storm, do you light the candles or turn on the flashlight? How many of each do you own?

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I can’t even remember the last time we lost power. But I know I probably used the flashlight to find the candles and matches, then lit the candles. However, if we were to lose our power now, we’d be dependent on flashlights because we haven’t collected a lot of candles since we retired and relocated.

List at least five of your favorite types of animals? (any animal to domestic to wild to marine life)

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giant Pacific octopus
polar bear
muskox
giraffe
all cats great and small

 

Bonus question: What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

Spring has finally arrived, and more and more flowers and shrubs are blooming. They are beautiful, even if the pollen does irritate my eyes. I hope we’ll continue to have an occasional non-rainy day to get outside and appreciate the beauty.

Have a good week, everybody!

© 2016 by Mary Daniels Brown